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It is a bitter truth that when someone told us about our mistake then instead of accepting it we try to convince another person that how we are right. We become habitual of thinking that whatever we do is correct in some or other way. We only know about things when we do it. Some people do things based  on their intuition which is not right in all the cases but if you do things logically it will be right in all manner. Even the great Indian yogi and author Jaggi Vasudev, known publicly as Sadhguru said,'' you should be logical rather than intuitive''. Remember, Another person might be wrong but they will never accept. You can tell them that Wisely that how they are wrong. Here, all the matter belongs to the politeness because anything on this earth gets easily attracted towards politeness.  Nowadays no one wants to listen to others perspective but if you talk to others as they want they will more likely to agree with you and do things correctly. It has been seen that so

If I ask you How many time you gave suggestions and orders to someone else and Did they get interested in taking your suggestion and orders. Possibly many of them will be from those who would like to take suggestions instead of orders.  Once I remembered when I was in school. we were a group of five students. So we were doing decoration for the art exhibition. After two hours of decoration, two teachers came to us and one of them said that u have mistaken the decoration Remove this, Do that in this way, on the other hand, another teacher told us the same thing in a different manner and we are more likely to listen to her as she was not forcing her ideas on us. If you give suggestions to someone else they will more likely to take it in a better way on the other hand when people are ordered they refuse to do it by putting their ego first. Suggestion doesn't mean that you should force your ideas on someone else, it is just that let other people allowed doing things themselves, let the

It becomes easy for you to accept your mistakes after being praised by another person. A Barber spray your hair with water before cutting; that is precisely what my teacher did back when I and my friend were in college. We both had prepared a dance for college function. Few other students had also participated. Therefore, we all asked to give the auditions of what we have prepared. When our turn came, we showed our performance to the teacher. Despite being bored by seeing a lot of many performances, one of the teachers chose to give us advice very politely. So, there must be something left that's why she called both of us and said very politely that you need to change your song your dance steps were nice but it is not going with the song. I must consider you to practice again, she said. The reason for sharing this story with you is that when our mistakes are praised in the form of correctness we are more likely to do it in a better way. Praising is something that makes another per

I was waiting in the queue to deposit some amount of money. There I noticed that the lady employe who was handling this work appeared to be bored & stressed with her job. Then I thought about what I can do to make her feel important. It has been half an hour standing in the queue. I was still thinking about what to do. Obviously, for strangers, it is difficult to admire because we don't know their quality. So, when finally my turn came I watched her carefully and remarked happily, I wish I had your beautiful eyes. The moment I admire her she looked up & her face glare with a smile & said many people have admired my eyes. As she was doing her job so we didn't talk more but I am happy that we end up with a good little conversation. Now you are wondering why I did this to her she is neither my relative nor my friend. Sometimes when you praise someone you are actually giving them happiness. This step of yours can make someone happy all day long. You will lose nothing i

An Expression of smiling that one wears on his/her face is far better than the makeup & clothes that they wear. Your positive behavior or smiling face encourages people to talk with you. A shopkeeper without wearing a smile on his/ her face can't attract the customers to visit their shop. Another, the receptionist in any company, malls, schools & hospitals treats their customers with a smiling face even they are the first employee that the public or customer has contact with. Therefore, for them, a joyful face is necessary. Whenever you talk with another person forget all the problems of your life try to talk nicely with them, listen to their viewpoints. Further, A sales person's job is to sell their products or services. If they will talk to their customers by smiling they are more likely to attract customer's attention towards their product or services. A person who tends to show this quality generally sells more and can handle any situation efficiently.  Once, I

A Peace of joy, Harmony, Happiness, & enjoyment is all termed as a success. These all come from the deep-self of the human being. Someone may be seen successful by obtaining Fraud money. This kind of success does not stay for a long time. Our inner soul refuses to accept the happiness that comes from this kind of work. Whatever our thoughts and ideas, if we believe in them we desperately want to create it. Even some thoughts may bring a disturbance in our minds. We have to be aware of it, which thoughts give us peace & harmony. Possibly you can be successful for another person, but unless and until you do not acquire the peace & joy in your mind you won't believe that you are successful. Therefore, to create peace of joy & harmony in your inner-self you should start doing the work that interests you or that you love to do. If you do not love your work you cannot gain desireful success. For example, A craftsman's love for their work can be seen in the thing that

We are habitual of thinking all the time that's why our mind is filled with a lot many things. We form a habit pattern in our minds by continuously thinking about any matter. But we forget that this habit became an obstacle to achieve success. Problems arise in everyone's life with a definite solution. We have to follow the urgings of mind in a way to solve the problems. we should build our attitude in such a way so that it will bring peace, harmony & confidence in our life. You have a genuine desire to overcome a mental block in your life. If you are not clear with the origin of a problem you cannot solve it. Further, In a way to deal with problems, you must possess sincerity. If you do so, you already healed 50% of it and for the rest of it, you have to make the right decisions. Another thing is that your peace of mind & inner calm should be balanced. If you really want to get out of any situation then it doesn't matter for you that how you have been treated. you

Whenever our mind accepts an idea it immediately tries to execute. It uses all the possibilities which help them to reach the end. If you use your mind structurally, it brings freedom, confidence, peace, and courage consequently if you use your mind negatively it brings failure, depression, and confusion. Most of the religious people believe that prayer does work in the leading success they think prayer often works in every situation. I believe prayer means trust & confidence that you must know about. Trust and confidence is the key to achieve success even when you go for an interview the experts see your confidence and of course your trust in that company where you want to get hired. However, there are other people too who believe that Hardwork is the right way to get success. I think which is not wrong hard work makes you more powerful along with your confidence. Working hard does not lead the way you want until you have confidence and trust. Therefore, it is obvious that yo

Enable Ginger Cannot connect to Ginger Check your internet connection or reload the browser Disable in this text field Edit Edit in Ginger Edit in Ginger × our interpretation decides other's character right? These days no-one wants to listen to other perspectives even if they are right. Unexpectedly if they do listen other's perspective then they didn't accept it because somewhere they think that why we go with other's suggestion when we stand by ourself and then the argument arises between them. Even if you think that you are wrong. Isn't it? it is a better way to accept it by saying I may be wrong. you will never get into conflicts by acknowledging that you may be wrong. That will stop all arguments & influence another person to be open and liberal as you are. And possibly it will make him admit that he/she, too wrong. Most citizens don't want to change their minds maybe they are blighted with jealously, fear, pride & intuition. Therefore if you dis

It is right that everything in this world would not easy to do but at the same time, it is not difficult to try at least. we always afraid of taking risks maybe we thought that mistakes cannot be improved easily. Actually, it is we, who makes the thing easy or difficult right! Every mistake teaches us something new in our lives and helps us to raise confidence. The more you suffer, the higher you achieve. Some people really became insane when they did a mistake. Remember, A successful businessman runs his business efficiently only by handling the situation precisely. Also, A businessman called successful only when he has the ability to inspired and gave courage & confidence to his employes not when he acts as dumb or stupid at certain things. If you tell your partners, child, employes that they are nothing, they are stupid you will see the bad effect of it contrarily if you will do just opposite of it i.e., making thing easy for them or let them believe that you have trust on their