True lights of life

When it comes to paying attention. Most of the people already ruin their minds by thinking of irreverent matters, that doesn't benefit them even later it makes noise. Apart from working and earning money, we kept our mind very busy by focusing on useless things. We are giving so much power to the outside world by paying attention to the small things. We easily influence by thinking what another person thinks about us. Actually, we give our emotion's key to another person. If someone praises our qualities, we think that no one is better than us, and if someone disappoints us, we spend our whole day thinking about why he/she said this to us. We give way to ourselves to the outside world so much that we forget what we are and what else we can do. We are making ourselves foolish by paying attention to other's perceptions, and that's how we lose our ability to think and grow. Moreover, there are lots of things where we need to pay attention like, to our family, friends, our

  We are not what we were before. Our food, fashion, lifestyle, from infancy to adultness, from schools to colleges, & then a job, everything has changed. We can't expect anything to remain unchanged. Even our body, friends, family, plants, and animals change with time. We have to adjust ourselves to them. Some changes are good and some are bad, but it could not last forever. we don't see our hairs, nails, plants & animals are growing. We assumed and feel them. Consequently, life is uncertain, it has changed and it will change with time. Either it may be natural or due to human activity. However, most people do not want changes in their life. If they are happy, they want to remain happy. Obviously, everyone wants that but when circumstances are not well then you have to understand that it will change too. Most people give stress to themselves because they think that they are going to live their whole life like that. Sometimes, we cannot control the changes that happen

  The World has become noisier than it already is and there are lots of Rush in social media or in our daily activities. We are surrounded by a lot of information that, if we ever try to remember them, we cannot remember for long. Have you ever felt that you should go to a place where there is peace? Generally, those people who stay in a noisy environment tend to get stressed quickly and that's why they lose concentration in their actions. However, Most people relax their Brain and body by listening to music, even then if they stop the song their brain does not calm, it retrieving the lyrics by creating an illusion of sound. It is not possible that your brain completely turns off. It's just that, if your mind is peaceful, it will focus on the sound that comes inside your brain and when it is in rush, it will focus on the external noise around your surroundings. As everything around us is so noisy & louder. Many of us seeking silence. Few listen to music to quiet our minds

  At an early age, we decide to achieve big dreams. At that time, we are not aware of how much failure or success that we can face. But soon when the time is right, we have to work hard to achieve our dreams, then we ignore them and make excuses. Because first, it needs lots of hard work, Secondly you don't need to be asked to do only those things in which you are skilled. If we want to grow in our life & career. There must be the development of our skills. We only like to do those things in which we are comfortable or we are skilled at. After Graduation, you can get a job and do your job happily, but sitting at only one place and doing work every day without any development doesn't make sense. It actually blocks your skills which means you are not able to think differently. We always want to perform better than the people who are around us and that will be possible if we will do something which is beyond our comfort zone. No Doubt, Sitting in one place and doing work, mayb

  As we are thinking all the time. There are lots of good and bad ideas that arise in our minds. Sometimes we feel like, we should share these ideas with others or ask others about what to do next. In short, we are confused, whether to do it or not. We have uncertainty that, what if these ideas didn't work? The more you think different ideas, the less clarity you had.  There are some decisions, where we want to share it with anyone, who at least listen & help us to tell which direction is best. Probably, that doesn't work all the time, you may face failure or may get success. Therefore, it's better to listen to the sound of soul '' Intuition'' and later, if we face failure, let's blame ourselves. In most of the decisions, our mind tries to tell us which one is best, sometimes we feel them and do accordingly but, sometimes we ignore them, or maybe our inattentive nature not allow us to listen to them. Moreover, in our everyday surroundings, there are

A Person who is confident, active, love the Social Environment and prefer to be with other people. These kinds of people are dynamic & friendly. Such type of people is called extrovert personality. We all want to be that kind of person. Right? But have we ever thought that we should also be such a person? Did you ever notice that when you go to a restaurant or club what are the things that attract you or forces you to visit there again? Obviously, the food, the services, the restaurant design, and the development concept but along with these the behavior of staff towards you like how they talk to you, how they treat you as a guest. In short, their friendly nature that takes you there again. Extrovert does not mean that you need to talk all the time, whether it is relevant or irrelevant. It means that you must aware of what is happening around you, How you respond to a particular situation. Let's take an example, After the age of nineteen or twenty we became eligible for an in

  When we think something about growing, the Plants and trees strike in our mind first. Right? As plants need care, so does human. Even so, one more thing that, all the living beings need to grow is - Love and support. I remembered I had a classmate in schooltime, who was an average student. Most of the time he gained B grade sometimes even C too. He was very good at activities but an average student when it comes to studying. He talked too much. Most of the time he was talking and disturbing others while the teacher was giving instruction. He and the other who was a part of gossiping with him knew that it wasn't helpful but as they were habitual even then they used to talk. So, the teacher always complains to his parents that he neither falls himself nor lets others read. One day, our English Teacher was on medical leave. So, in her place, a young substitute arrived- who was a sports teacher at our school. As we were no more interested in the lecture so he took us to the playgroun

. Nowadays, People became frustrate easily over minor things like as if their vehicle is not starting, if their meal is just a few minutes late if, they stuck in the traffic jam and many more like that. we always suggest people be patient but did we ever live in patience. It is very easy to say other you must have patience but, when it comes to our situation we forget it. You cannot get everything in life easily. There are lots of books about great people in which they teach us how to get success by keeping patience. Patience does not give you success directly even it teaches you lots of things that help you to reach your desire goal. When you forget to maintain patience you became irritated over silly things that bother you later. If things are not going the way you want them to, rather then leaving those things, you must think about how can you resolve it, what else can you do to accomplish that. Sometime it may happen that if things are not going according to you, might be you are

Our minds generate what we impress upon it. Your thought cannot tell about the other person even it tells about yourself. In this world, no one is born with good or bad qualities. It's our emotions that we convey just as the situation and later it becomes our good or bad qualities. I believe the word good or bad rises based on other's perceptions. Your quality will be different for different people. Might be what you feel good about you another person does not feel the same. We should set the same boundaries that we can apply ourselves. I remembered once I met a lady. A lady who was always polite & courteous in front of others but when their back turns she started backbiting. There was certain pomposity in her way of speaking where I found that she feels that the people around her have a certain problem with her. According to her, she was always right. This attitude of her made her angry day by day & she was the only one who was suffering as she started spending time al