Boost the power of listening


Why we always worry about the gratification of our desire? Sometimes it becomes necessary to think other's perspectives too. It's quite obvious that what interest to us we only think of that, so the only way to influence other people is to talk with them what they want to say. If, for example, some parents forget to listen to their children i.e., what their children want to do, in which field they are more curious. Obviously, you are the only one who is more concerned about their future but at least teach them the way they want. 


 Everything you performed in your life, you performed it because you wanted. Unquestionably you might give some coins candies or any other thing to needful you gave them because you were ashamed to refuse or maybe another person asked you to do it. Many people learn early in life that if you want to influence people to talk to them in what terms they want to talk also its a belief that a good speaker does not define you to a good conversationalist but a good listener defines. Several problems arise in any relationship is because of not listening to other


perspectives, what they want to do is just speak whether it carries some meaning or not. you are not born with this quality you should develop it. For example, If you want to cook something which you never tried before so all you can do is just listen to the directions of others who already make it before i.e., the recipe for that dish. If you cook it according to your way maybe you will cook something blunder, isn't it? Accordingly, by listening to others, you are making a benefit of a garden for yourself. 

 Further, we are always bothered about what we are going to say next without listening to another person. The ability to listen seems rare than any other good trait. Remember that any person with whom you are talking to might be they are more absorbed in themselves and the problem arising in their own life. A person's fracture is far bigger for him than another person's failure in an interview, maybe a minor toothache is interested more than the other's accident. So, whenever talk to others listen more instead of speaking more.

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