Best Way to Avoid Making Enemies




our interpretation decides other's character right? These days no-one wants to listen to other perspectives even if they are right. Unexpectedly if they do listen other's perspective then they didn't accept it because somewhere they think that why we go with other's suggestion when we stand by ourself and then the argument arises between them.
Even if you think that you are wrong. Isn't it? it is a better way to accept it by saying I may be wrong. you will never get into conflicts by acknowledging that you may be wrong. That will stop all arguments & influence another person to be open and liberal as you are. And possibly it will make him admit that he/she, too wrong.

Most citizens don't want to change their minds maybe they are blighted with jealously, fear, pride & intuition. Therefore if you disposed to tell them that they are wrong maybe they loose tempered and fight with you.
we like to continue to believe what we have been habitual to accept as true. Right? Further, Never get down to prove by announcing. sometimes it is better to don't even share the ideas. If you're going to prove it to anybody, don't let others know about it. Do it so adroitly that no one feels that you are doing it.
As Lord Chesterfield said to his son :
Be Wiser than other people if you can, but do not tell them so
Therefore, if you can't be sure of being right even 50% of why should you tell the others that they are wrong.



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