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It is a bitter truth that when someone told us about our mistake then instead of accepting it we try to convince another person that how we are right. We become habitual of thinking that whatever we do is correct in some or other way. We only know about things when we do it. Some people do things based  on their intuition which is not right in all the cases but if you do things logically it will be right in all manner. Even the great Indian yogi and author Jaggi Vasudev, known publicly as Sadhguru said,'' you should be logical rather than intuitive''. Remember, Another person might be wrong but they will never accept. You can tell them that Wisely that how they are wrong. Here, all the matter belongs to the politeness because anything on this earth gets easily attracted towards politeness.  Nowadays no one wants to listen to others perspective but if you talk to others as they want they will more likely to agree with you and do things correctly. It has been seen that so...

If I ask you How many time you gave suggestions and orders to someone else and Did they get interested in taking your suggestion and orders. Possibly many of them will be from those who would like to take suggestions instead of orders.  Once I remembered when I was in school. we were a group of five students. So we were doing decoration for the art exhibition. After two hours of decoration, two teachers came to us and one of them said that u have mistaken the decoration Remove this, Do that in this way, on the other hand, another teacher told us the same thing in a different manner and we are more likely to listen to her as she was not forcing her ideas on us. If you give suggestions to someone else they will more likely to take it in a better way on the other hand when people are ordered they refuse to do it by putting their ego first. Suggestion doesn't mean that you should force your ideas on someone else, it is just that let other people allowed doing things themselves, let the...

It becomes easy for you to accept your mistakes after being praised by another person. A Barber spray your hair with water before cutting; that is precisely what my teacher did back when I and my friend were in college. We both had prepared a dance for college function. Few other students had also participated. Therefore, we all asked to give the auditions of what we have prepared. When our turn came, we showed our performance to the teacher. Despite being bored by seeing a lot of many performances, one of the teachers chose to give us advice very politely. So, there must be something left that's why she called both of us and said very politely that you need to change your song your dance steps were nice but it is not going with the song. I must consider you to practice again, she said. The reason for sharing this story with you is that when our mistakes are praised in the form of correctness we are more likely to do it in a better way. Praising is something that makes another per...