How to Correct Other's mistake wisely ?

It is a bitter truth that when someone told us about our mistake then instead of accepting it we try to convince another person that how we are right. We become habitual of thinking that whatever we do is correct in some or other way. We only know about things when we do it.
Some people do things based on their intuition which is not right in all the cases but if you do things logically it will be right in all manner. Even the great Indian yogi and author Jaggi Vasudev, known publicly as Sadhguru said,'' you should be logical rather than intuitive''.
Remember, Another person might be wrong but they will never accept. You can tell them that Wisely that how they are wrong. Here, all the matter belongs to the politeness because anything on this earth gets easily attracted towards politeness. 
Nowadays no one wants to listen to others perspective but if you talk to others as they want they will more likely to agree with you and do things correctly.
It has been seen that some parents lack this quality as whenever their child did some mistake they start scolding them without even ask about the matter. Being a parent or anybody you should try to put yourself in that place. Think like what you do when you will be in their shoe. How would you feel? By doing this you will grow a good healthy relationship between you and the other person.
Commonly, we sometimes make mistakes either because of not being aware of a particular thing or maybe when luck doesn't support. In such a case when you put all your effort towards your desire & still fail to achieve it.  Then you find it difficult to accept your mistake.
In that situation, a person like who encourages you, understands your point of view, helps you to solve the issue is needed rather than a person who continuously discouraging you.
 I personally feel that the only thing which you can give to someone else that is more valuable and precious is courage.



 

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