How to Encourage people?
We can put our thoughts on anybody by pointing the gun on his/ her neck or maybe by threatening them. But Is it a correct way to deal or to behave with others. No right? I think the only way to get anybody to do anything is by giving them what they want. Dr. Dewey said that'' the intense wish in human nature is desire. The desire of feeling to be important''. When a child is appreciated for his/her performance in the race and rewarded that time the feeling of importance in their heart & mind motivates them to perform better on the other hand if for the same race the animal would reward maybe it didn't care about the prize they had won. The desire to be appreciated is not the same for humankind and for the animal maybe we learned it from our ancestors and I think it is a great way to develop civilization. Some authorities say that people will really become insane when they didn't find the appreciation, and the appreciation should be honest not flattery. Als