True lights of life

I was waiting in the queue to deposit some amount of money. There I noticed that the lady employe who was handling this work appeared to be bored & stressed with her job. Then I thought about what I can do to make her feel important. It has been half an hour standing in the queue. I was still thinking about what to do. Obviously, for strangers, it is difficult to admire because we don't know their quality. So, when finally my turn came I watched her carefully and remarked happily, I wish I had your beautiful eyes. The moment I admire her she looked up & her face glare with a smile & said many people have admired my eyes. As she was doing her job so we didn't talk more but I am happy that we end up with a good little conversation. Now you are wondering why I did this to her she is neither my relative nor my friend. Sometimes when you praise someone you are actually giving them happiness. This step of yours can make someone happy all day long. You will lose nothing i...

An Expression of smiling that one wears on his/her face is far better than the makeup & clothes that they wear. Your positive behavior or smiling face encourages people to talk with you. A shopkeeper without wearing a smile on his/ her face can't attract the customers to visit their shop. Another, the receptionist in any company, malls, schools & hospitals treats their customers with a smiling face even they are the first employee that the public or customer has contact with. Therefore, for them, a joyful face is necessary. Whenever you talk with another person forget all the problems of your life try to talk nicely with them, listen to their viewpoints. Further, A sales person's job is to sell their products or services. If they will talk to their customers by smiling they are more likely to attract customer's attention towards their product or services. A person who tends to show this quality generally sells more and can handle any situation efficiently.  Once, I...

A Peace of joy, Harmony, Happiness, & enjoyment is all termed as a success. These all come from the deep-self of the human being. Someone may be seen successful by obtaining Fraud money. This kind of success does not stay for a long time. Our inner soul refuses to accept the happiness that comes from this kind of work. Whatever our thoughts and ideas, if we believe in them we desperately want to create it. Even some thoughts may bring a disturbance in our minds. We have to be aware of it, which thoughts give us peace & harmony. Possibly you can be successful for another person, but unless and until you do not acquire the peace & joy in your mind you won't believe that you are successful. Therefore, to create peace of joy & harmony in your inner-self you should start doing the work that interests you or that you love to do. If you do not love your work you cannot gain desireful success. For example, A craftsman's love for their work can be seen in the thing that...

We are habitual of thinking all the time that's why our mind is filled with a lot many things. We form a habit pattern in our minds by continuously thinking about any matter. But we forget that this habit became an obstacle to achieve success. Problems arise in everyone's life with a definite solution. We have to follow the urgings of mind in a way to solve the problems. we should build our attitude in such a way so that it will bring peace, harmony & confidence in our life. You have a genuine desire to overcome a mental block in your life. If you are not clear with the origin of a problem you cannot solve it. Further, In a way to deal with problems, you must possess sincerity. If you do so, you already healed 50% of it and for the rest of it, you have to make the right decisions. Another thing is that your peace of mind & inner calm should be balanced. If you really want to get out of any situation then it doesn't matter for you that how you have been treated. you...

Whenever our mind accepts an idea it immediately tries to execute. It uses all the possibilities which help them to reach the end. If you use your mind structurally, it brings freedom, confidence, peace, and courage consequently if you use your mind negatively it brings failure, depression, and confusion. Most of the religious people believe that prayer does work in the leading success they think prayer often works in every situation. I believe prayer means trust & confidence that you must know about. Trust and confidence is the key to achieve success even when you go for an interview the experts see your confidence and of course your trust in that company where you want to get hired. However, there are other people too who believe that Hardwork is the right way to get success. I think which is not wrong hard work makes you more powerful along with your confidence. Working hard does not lead the way you want until you have confidence and trust. Therefore, it is obvious that yo...

Enable Ginger Cannot connect to Ginger Check your internet connection or reload the browser Disable in this text field Edit Edit in Ginger Edit in Ginger × our interpretation decides other's character right? These days no-one wants to listen to other perspectives even if they are right. Unexpectedly if they do listen other's perspective then they didn't accept it because somewhere they think that why we go with other's suggestion when we stand by ourself and then the argument arises between them. Even if you think that you are wrong. Isn't it? it is a better way to accept it by saying I may be wrong. you will never get into conflicts by acknowledging that you may be wrong. That will stop all arguments & influence another person to be open and liberal as you are. And possibly it will make him admit that he/she, too wrong. Most citizens don't want to change their minds maybe they are blighted with jealously, fear, pride & intuition. Therefore if you dis...

It is right that everything in this world would not easy to do but at the same time, it is not difficult to try at least. we always afraid of taking risks maybe we thought that mistakes cannot be improved easily. Actually, it is we, who makes the thing easy or difficult right! Every mistake teaches us something new in our lives and helps us to raise confidence. The more you suffer, the higher you achieve. Some people really became insane when they did a mistake. Remember, A successful businessman runs his business efficiently only by handling the situation precisely. Also, A businessman called successful only when he has the ability to inspired and gave courage & confidence to his employes not when he acts as dumb or stupid at certain things. If you tell your partners, child, employes that they are nothing, they are stupid you will see the bad effect of it contrarily if you will do just opposite of it i.e., making thing easy for them or let them believe that you have trust on their...

We can put our thoughts on anybody by pointing the gun on his/ her neck or maybe by threatening them. But Is it a correct way to deal or to behave with others. No right? I think the only way to get anybody to do anything is by giving them what they want. Dr. Dewey said that'' the intense wish in human nature is desire. The desire of feeling to be important''. When a child is appreciated for his/her performance in the race and rewarded that time the feeling of importance in their heart & mind motivates them to perform better on the other hand if for the same race the animal would reward maybe it didn't care about the prize they had won. The desire to be appreciated is not the same for humankind and for the animal maybe we learned it from our ancestors and I think it is a great way to develop civilization. Some authorities say that people will really become insane when they didn't find the appreciation, and the appreciation should be honest not flattery. Als...

  Enable Ginger Cannot connect to Ginger Check your internet connection or reload the browser Disable in this text field Edit Edit in Ginger Edit in Ginger × Add caption    We all grow  up with the bundle of arguments, first when we are not even born, that time the argument of our parents that whether our child would be a boy  or a girl then later when we born that time the argument of our clothes, toys, in which school our child will take admission. From our birth to till our death there are lots of arguments that everybody faces but Did we think befo re that how to win an argument? obviously, when we are a child it is not possible for us to win an argument but later at a certain age we all are capable of handling the situation. Add caption Once I remembered when I was in a school and my four other friends were a notorious group of our class. we all were scolded by teachers. One day I did some mischief things to my teacher later I get to know that teacher wi...

Add caption What is it that heals you? This is an essential question that arises for the deep concern to all of us and the answer is: your own mind, Nothing can cure you Better except your own mind. The healing power is in the mind of every person. Some people believe that you can heal yourself either by the guidance of some doctor or some priest though that's not true no one can help you if you don't help yoursel f. you cannot gain this power in any other place; it is within you which you have to look into it. You shoul d rest your mind, an d think about the presence of healing within you.  Add caption Moreover , there are many different techniques & method but there is only one process of healing which is faith. If your faith is as powerful as you want to achieve some big in life no one can stop you from attaining it. your mind is the only thing that either motivate you or demotivate you so, Imagine the end desired & feel its reality. Furthermore, prayer therapy...