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  We always considering Quitting as a failure or looser. Because we grew up as listening and understanding like this. Sometimes, we considered it as losing confidence, Fear, Discomfort, and Unrealistic Experiences and there are other people also, who take it as a negative attribute. However, you cannot consider quitting as a right or wrong decision until you get to know about the reason behind it. Definitely, if you are quitting because of Fear, and Past Experiences, then it is wrong. But sometimes when you are not getting interested in particular work or might be that work would not right for you, then quitting is correct. Everyone knows that making a decision that you want to quit by your own reasons is tough. Probably, If you are making such a decision for the right thing is appropriate and make sure your risks are worth it. When we are about to quit, we decide to begin something. Everyone teaches us,'' Not Giving Up.'' They say It's okay If you will fail, but a...

When it comes to paying attention. Most of the people already ruin their minds by thinking of irreverent matters, that doesn't benefit them even later it makes noise. Apart from working and earning money, we kept our mind very busy by focusing on useless things. We are giving so much power to the outside world by paying attention to the small things. We easily influence by thinking what another person thinks about us. Actually, we give our emotion's key to another person. If someone praises our qualities, we think that no one is better than us, and if someone disappoints us, we spend our whole day thinking about why he/she said this to us. We give way to ourselves to the outside world so much that we forget what we are and what else we can do. We are making ourselves foolish by paying attention to other's perceptions, and that's how we lose our ability to think and grow. Moreover, there are lots of things where we need to pay attention like, to our family, friends, our ...

  We are not what we were before. Our food, fashion, lifestyle, from infancy to adultness, from schools to colleges, & then a job, everything has changed. We can't expect anything to remain unchanged. Even our body, friends, family, plants, and animals change with time. We have to adjust ourselves to them. Some changes are good and some are bad, but it could not last forever. we don't see our hairs, nails, plants & animals are growing. We assumed and feel them. Consequently, life is uncertain, it has changed and it will change with time. Either it may be natural or due to human activity. However, most people do not want changes in their life. If they are happy, they want to remain happy. Obviously, everyone wants that but when circumstances are not well then you have to understand that it will change too. Most people give stress to themselves because they think that they are going to live their whole life like that. Sometimes, we cannot control the changes that happen ...

  The World has become noisier than it already is and there are lots of Rush in social media or in our daily activities. We are surrounded by a lot of information that, if we ever try to remember them, we cannot remember for long. Have you ever felt that you should go to a place where there is peace? Generally, those people who stay in a noisy environment tend to get stressed quickly and that's why they lose concentration in their actions. However, Most people relax their Brain and body by listening to music, even then if they stop the song their brain does not calm, it retrieving the lyrics by creating an illusion of sound. It is not possible that your brain completely turns off. It's just that, if your mind is peaceful, it will focus on the sound that comes inside your brain and when it is in rush, it will focus on the external noise around your surroundings. As everything around us is so noisy & louder. Many of us seeking silence. Few listen to music to quiet our minds...

  At an early age, we decide to achieve big dreams. At that time, we are not aware of how much failure or success that we can face. But soon when the time is right, we have to work hard to achieve our dreams, then we ignore them and make excuses. Because first, it needs lots of hard work, Secondly you don't need to be asked to do only those things in which you are skilled. If we want to grow in our life & career. There must be the development of our skills. We only like to do those things in which we are comfortable or we are skilled at. After Graduation, you can get a job and do your job happily, but sitting at only one place and doing work every day without any development doesn't make sense. It actually blocks your skills which means you are not able to think differently. We always want to perform better than the people who are around us and that will be possible if we will do something which is beyond our comfort zone. No Doubt, Sitting in one place and doing work, mayb...

  As we are thinking all the time. There are lots of good and bad ideas that arise in our minds. Sometimes we feel like, we should share these ideas with others or ask others about what to do next. In short, we are confused, whether to do it or not. We have uncertainty that, what if these ideas didn't work? The more you think different ideas, the less clarity you had.  There are some decisions, where we want to share it with anyone, who at least listen & help us to tell which direction is best. Probably, that doesn't work all the time, you may face failure or may get success. Therefore, it's better to listen to the sound of soul '' Intuition'' and later, if we face failure, let's blame ourselves. In most of the decisions, our mind tries to tell us which one is best, sometimes we feel them and do accordingly but, sometimes we ignore them, or maybe our inattentive nature not allow us to listen to them. Moreover, in our everyday surroundings, there are ...

A Person who is confident, active, love the Social Environment and prefer to be with other people. These kinds of people are dynamic & friendly. Such type of people is called extrovert personality. We all want to be that kind of person. Right? But have we ever thought that we should also be such a person? Did you ever notice that when you go to a restaurant or club what are the things that attract you or forces you to visit there again? Obviously, the food, the services, the restaurant design, and the development concept but along with these the behavior of staff towards you like how they talk to you, how they treat you as a guest. In short, their friendly nature that takes you there again. Extrovert does not mean that you need to talk all the time, whether it is relevant or irrelevant. It means that you must aware of what is happening around you, How you respond to a particular situation. Let's take an example, After the age of nineteen or twenty we became eligible for an in...

  When we think something about growing, the Plants and trees strike in our mind first. Right? As plants need care, so does human. Even so, one more thing that, all the living beings need to grow is - Love and support. I remembered I had a classmate in schooltime, who was an average student. Most of the time he gained B grade sometimes even C too. He was very good at activities but an average student when it comes to studying. He talked too much. Most of the time he was talking and disturbing others while the teacher was giving instruction. He and the other who was a part of gossiping with him knew that it wasn't helpful but as they were habitual even then they used to talk. So, the teacher always complains to his parents that he neither falls himself nor lets others read. One day, our English Teacher was on medical leave. So, in her place, a young substitute arrived- who was a sports teacher at our school. As we were no more interested in the lecture so he took us to the playgroun...

. Nowadays, People became frustrate easily over minor things like as if their vehicle is not starting, if their meal is just a few minutes late if, they stuck in the traffic jam and many more like that. we always suggest people be patient but did we ever live in patience. It is very easy to say other you must have patience but, when it comes to our situation we forget it. You cannot get everything in life easily. There are lots of books about great people in which they teach us how to get success by keeping patience. Patience does not give you success directly even it teaches you lots of things that help you to reach your desire goal. When you forget to maintain patience you became irritated over silly things that bother you later. If things are not going the way you want them to, rather then leaving those things, you must think about how can you resolve it, what else can you do to accomplish that. Sometime it may happen that if things are not going according to you, might be you are ...

Our minds generate what we impress upon it. Your thought cannot tell about the other person even it tells about yourself. In this world, no one is born with good or bad qualities. It's our emotions that we convey just as the situation and later it becomes our good or bad qualities. I believe the word good or bad rises based on other's perceptions. Your quality will be different for different people. Might be what you feel good about you another person does not feel the same. We should set the same boundaries that we can apply ourselves. I remembered once I met a lady. A lady who was always polite & courteous in front of others but when their back turns she started backbiting. There was certain pomposity in her way of speaking where I found that she feels that the people around her have a certain problem with her. According to her, she was always right. This attitude of her made her angry day by day & she was the only one who was suffering as she started spending time al...

It is a bitter truth that when someone told us about our mistake then instead of accepting it we try to convince another person that how we are right. We become habitual of thinking that whatever we do is correct in some or other way. We only know about things when we do it. Some people do things based  on their intuition which is not right in all the cases but if you do things logically it will be right in all manner. Even the great Indian yogi and author Jaggi Vasudev, known publicly as Sadhguru said,'' you should be logical rather than intuitive''. Remember, Another person might be wrong but they will never accept. You can tell them that Wisely that how they are wrong. Here, all the matter belongs to the politeness because anything on this earth gets easily attracted towards politeness.  Nowadays no one wants to listen to others perspective but if you talk to others as they want they will more likely to agree with you and do things correctly. It has been seen that so...

If I ask you How many time you gave suggestions and orders to someone else and Did they get interested in taking your suggestion and orders. Possibly many of them will be from those who would like to take suggestions instead of orders.  Once I remembered when I was in school. we were a group of five students. So we were doing decoration for the art exhibition. After two hours of decoration, two teachers came to us and one of them said that u have mistaken the decoration Remove this, Do that in this way, on the other hand, another teacher told us the same thing in a different manner and we are more likely to listen to her as she was not forcing her ideas on us. If you give suggestions to someone else they will more likely to take it in a better way on the other hand when people are ordered they refuse to do it by putting their ego first. Suggestion doesn't mean that you should force your ideas on someone else, it is just that let other people allowed doing things themselves, let the...

It becomes easy for you to accept your mistakes after being praised by another person. A Barber spray your hair with water before cutting; that is precisely what my teacher did back when I and my friend were in college. We both had prepared a dance for college function. Few other students had also participated. Therefore, we all asked to give the auditions of what we have prepared. When our turn came, we showed our performance to the teacher. Despite being bored by seeing a lot of many performances, one of the teachers chose to give us advice very politely. So, there must be something left that's why she called both of us and said very politely that you need to change your song your dance steps were nice but it is not going with the song. I must consider you to practice again, she said. The reason for sharing this story with you is that when our mistakes are praised in the form of correctness we are more likely to do it in a better way. Praising is something that makes another per...

I was waiting in the queue to deposit some amount of money. There I noticed that the lady employe who was handling this work appeared to be bored & stressed with her job. Then I thought about what I can do to make her feel important. It has been half an hour standing in the queue. I was still thinking about what to do. Obviously, for strangers, it is difficult to admire because we don't know their quality. So, when finally my turn came I watched her carefully and remarked happily, I wish I had your beautiful eyes. The moment I admire her she looked up & her face glare with a smile & said many people have admired my eyes. As she was doing her job so we didn't talk more but I am happy that we end up with a good little conversation. Now you are wondering why I did this to her she is neither my relative nor my friend. Sometimes when you praise someone you are actually giving them happiness. This step of yours can make someone happy all day long. You will lose nothing i...

An Expression of smiling that one wears on his/her face is far better than the makeup & clothes that they wear. Your positive behavior or smiling face encourages people to talk with you. A shopkeeper without wearing a smile on his/ her face can't attract the customers to visit their shop. Another, the receptionist in any company, malls, schools & hospitals treats their customers with a smiling face even they are the first employee that the public or customer has contact with. Therefore, for them, a joyful face is necessary. Whenever you talk with another person forget all the problems of your life try to talk nicely with them, listen to their viewpoints. Further, A sales person's job is to sell their products or services. If they will talk to their customers by smiling they are more likely to attract customer's attention towards their product or services. A person who tends to show this quality generally sells more and can handle any situation efficiently.  Once, I...

A Peace of joy, Harmony, Happiness, & enjoyment is all termed as a success. These all come from the deep-self of the human being. Someone may be seen successful by obtaining Fraud money. This kind of success does not stay for a long time. Our inner soul refuses to accept the happiness that comes from this kind of work. Whatever our thoughts and ideas, if we believe in them we desperately want to create it. Even some thoughts may bring a disturbance in our minds. We have to be aware of it, which thoughts give us peace & harmony. Possibly you can be successful for another person, but unless and until you do not acquire the peace & joy in your mind you won't believe that you are successful. Therefore, to create peace of joy & harmony in your inner-self you should start doing the work that interests you or that you love to do. If you do not love your work you cannot gain desireful success. For example, A craftsman's love for their work can be seen in the thing that...

We are habitual of thinking all the time that's why our mind is filled with a lot many things. We form a habit pattern in our minds by continuously thinking about any matter. But we forget that this habit became an obstacle to achieve success. Problems arise in everyone's life with a definite solution. We have to follow the urgings of mind in a way to solve the problems. we should build our attitude in such a way so that it will bring peace, harmony & confidence in our life. You have a genuine desire to overcome a mental block in your life. If you are not clear with the origin of a problem you cannot solve it. Further, In a way to deal with problems, you must possess sincerity. If you do so, you already healed 50% of it and for the rest of it, you have to make the right decisions. Another thing is that your peace of mind & inner calm should be balanced. If you really want to get out of any situation then it doesn't matter for you that how you have been treated. you...

Whenever our mind accepts an idea it immediately tries to execute. It uses all the possibilities which help them to reach the end. If you use your mind structurally, it brings freedom, confidence, peace, and courage consequently if you use your mind negatively it brings failure, depression, and confusion. Most of the religious people believe that prayer does work in the leading success they think prayer often works in every situation. I believe prayer means trust & confidence that you must know about. Trust and confidence is the key to achieve success even when you go for an interview the experts see your confidence and of course your trust in that company where you want to get hired. However, there are other people too who believe that Hardwork is the right way to get success. I think which is not wrong hard work makes you more powerful along with your confidence. Working hard does not lead the way you want until you have confidence and trust. Therefore, it is obvious that yo...

Enable Ginger Cannot connect to Ginger Check your internet connection or reload the browser Disable in this text field Edit Edit in Ginger Edit in Ginger × our interpretation decides other's character right? These days no-one wants to listen to other perspectives even if they are right. Unexpectedly if they do listen other's perspective then they didn't accept it because somewhere they think that why we go with other's suggestion when we stand by ourself and then the argument arises between them. Even if you think that you are wrong. Isn't it? it is a better way to accept it by saying I may be wrong. you will never get into conflicts by acknowledging that you may be wrong. That will stop all arguments & influence another person to be open and liberal as you are. And possibly it will make him admit that he/she, too wrong. Most citizens don't want to change their minds maybe they are blighted with jealously, fear, pride & intuition. Therefore if you dis...

It is right that everything in this world would not easy to do but at the same time, it is not difficult to try at least. we always afraid of taking risks maybe we thought that mistakes cannot be improved easily. Actually, it is we, who makes the thing easy or difficult right! Every mistake teaches us something new in our lives and helps us to raise confidence. The more you suffer, the higher you achieve. Some people really became insane when they did a mistake. Remember, A successful businessman runs his business efficiently only by handling the situation precisely. Also, A businessman called successful only when he has the ability to inspired and gave courage & confidence to his employes not when he acts as dumb or stupid at certain things. If you tell your partners, child, employes that they are nothing, they are stupid you will see the bad effect of it contrarily if you will do just opposite of it i.e., making thing easy for them or let them believe that you have trust on their...